Sometimes it's hard to understand feel people's love because they don't express it the same way we do. I think there were many times when I was younger, or even now, where I dismissed people because I don't feel appreciated or felt ignored, but really, it was just a misunderstanding of love languages. It makes me revisit memories of my childhood with my parents, like hmmm perhaps they did it because they love me and didn't know how else to express it.
I was sitting on the bed one night reading an article on EliteDaily about relationships (ha-good use of time), I wondered whether my love languages has altered. Being in Melbourne for almost a year (time, slow down!) and having gone through an impressive amount of tears and who-am-i thoughts, surely I would've swayed a few inches off how I accept and show love? I took the test again and I'm still the quality time and words of affection girl I was a year ago.
I made Rowan take the test as well and we both are on par with quality time and words of affection. Good golly great then cause there won't be misunderstanding of lack of appreciation. Hooray!
Anyway, exciting times are coming! I'm very much content with my life at the moment.
How are you and what's your love language?